Archive for the ‘ Uncategorized ’ Category

Secular Humanist Tenets Part 6 - Ethics

New to FriendlyChristian.com? Check out the FAQ page to learn about the site. Wondering who the heck I am? The My Story page is a great place to start. Thanks for stopping by!

Click here to subscribe via RSS.
Click here to have posts delivered by email.

This message will automatically disappear after your 3rd visit.

Eight weeks ago I wrote about False assumptions and how Christians suffered in the past because of them just as atheists suffer today. Atheism doesn’t have a philosophy or principles to counter these false assumptions any more than it has a philosophy or principles to deserve them. Secular humanism does put forward a set of positive traits and promotes a world view. These are:

  1. Need to test beliefs
  2. Reason, evidence, scientific method
  3. Fulfillment, growth, creativity
  4. Search for truth
  5. This life
  6. Ethics
  7. Building a better world

Ethics - A search for viable individual, social and political principles of ethical conduct, judging them on their ability to enhance human well-being and individual responsibility.

Ethics is a major branch of philosophy. I simply cannot do it credit in a brief summary and so must assume that everyone has some basic idea of what is ethical and what is not. Secular ethics are one particular branch of the larger philosophy. In short the idea of secular ethics is based on a commonality of human experience. Humans, being social animals with the same basic physical and mental processes, have similar needs and desires.

  • The pagan tribes of Norway had a greeting ‘Flag, Flax, Fodder and Frigg’ which roughly equates to a blessing for home, clothing, food and love, our basic needs as humans.
  • The Christians have the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Which is an essentially reasonable idea also known as the ethic of reciprocity that most religions adhere to in one form or another.
  • The Baha’i have “And if thine eyes be turned towards justice, choose thou for thy neighbour that which thou choosest for thyself.”
  • Confucius said: “Never impose on others what you would not choose for yourself.” - Analects XV.24. Hindus have “That man who regards all creatures as his own self, and behaves towards them as towards his own self, laying aside the rod of chastisement and completely subjugating his wrath, succeeds in attaining to happiness”,
  • Muslims have: “Hurt no one so that no one may hurt you.”
  • Even the famous Satanist Aleister Crowley said “Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law” and places the idea of Sin as a restriction binding people to certain actions. In discarding Sin satanists become free to love without bounds.

There is a commonality of ethics throughout human religion but it is clearly not bound to religion. Secular ethics are obviously not drawn from religion but are drawn from the common idea that religions enjoy. In fact the Dalai Lama said, when discussing human values like affection and compassion “We need these human values. I call these secular ethics, secular beliefs. There’s no relationship with any particular religion. Even without religion, even as nonbelievers, we have the capacity to promote these things.”

Yet some theists like to maintain that belief in gods, whether theirs or another, is a requirement for ethics and for good, moral behaviour. They claim that without heaven as a reward or hell as a punishment there can be no control on the negative actions of people. I have only one thing to say beyond the utter refutation of this: If you need to believe in God to stop you raping, murdering and stealing then I am glad that you have that belief. I do not need it because I, like most people, can act morally without regard to religion.

Beyond this basic idea that humans decide for ourselves what is ethical behaviour those who self define as secular humanists also seek to discover what actions can improve life both for themselves, for society and, by extension, the world. This could be a material improvement through sharing resources, new technology or medicine or an idea. I know it is a bit of a stereotype but we embrace the idea of science being used to make things better for ourselves. For example without agricultural techniques and machines we’d only be able to feed 1% of the current world’s population.

We also follow the very simply idea that what is good feels good to do. Helping others feels good, seeing people benefit from your aid gives us a warm glow of happiness. Doing harm to others or causing suffering feels bad so we seek to avoid it. It is a rare individual who does not have these feelings. Moreover we encourage or reinforce good behaviour in our children and peers and discourage bad behaviour if for no other reason than we want to mix with others who we can trust to help us if we ever need it.

Popularity: 47% [?]

Secular Humanist Tenets Part 5 - This Life

Six weeks ago I wrote about false assumptions and how Christians suffered in the past because of them just as atheists suffer today. Atheism doesn’t have a philosophy or principles to counter these false assumptions any more than it has a philosophy or principles to deserve them. Secular humanism does put forward a set of positive traits and promotes a world view. These are:

  1. Need to test beliefs
  2. Reason, evidence, scientific method
  3. Fulfillment, growth, creativity
  4. Search for truth
  5. This life
  6. Ethics
  7. Building a better world

This life – A concern for this life and a commitment to making it meaningful through better understanding of ourselves, our history, our intellectual and artistic achievements, and the outlooks of those who differ from us. Read the rest of this entry »

Popularity: 55% [?]

Connections

I want to try an experiment.  Mike spoke about spirituality last week last week and about how it is difficult to explain and understand.  I see spirituality as a connection to something greater that yourself, a way of being more that just the one human mind in your head.  This experiment requires a little creativity on my part and some expenditure of effort on the part of the reader.  Please bear with me.

Imagine that you’re in a rowing boat on a lake.

It’s summer, early in the morning.  The sun is barely breaking through the landscape and long, tiger stripes of shadow punctuate the light.  The rays warm your skin as you drift serenely through them.  The shadows are cool but not chilly as you pass through the slices of day and night in the early dawn.  You can hear the clear, sharp, clean sound of birds singing.  There’s no background susurrus of daytime sounds yet, just the birds and the soft slosh of mini waves as they push against the sides of the boat.

You reach over the side and the shock of cold water kisses your skin.  The bob of the lake rolling beneath the boat plays across your knuckles.  A chilly rhythm of water.  Languidly you pull your arm back enjoying the hint of an ache in your fingers.  Holding out your hand, you close your eyes and feel the cling of water resist the gentle pull of gravity as the liquid finds pathways across your skin.  They fluidly build themselves into droplets and, when heavy enough, they fall.  Each drop taps. Tap.  A new sound in the arena.

Now, right on that tap - stop.  Stop imagining.  Here is the real game.  This is the thing that is overlooked while being obvious and frightening at the same time:  the lake in my head, the same lake I was imagining.  That lake has become the lake in your head.  It doesn’t matter that you never know me, or never know anything about me.  In a thousand years after I’m dead, if language can carry this message forward it won’t matter.  Think carefully on this, beyond the obvious sense to the huge and amazing miracle hidden inside.  The lake in my head has become the lake in your head.

Behind the one hundred and ninety words that make up my description there is some kind of flow.  A stream of pure conception.  Something with no mass, no matter, no gravity and beyond time itself.  A stream of consciousness that can only be seen if we choose to look beyond the words, beyond the meaning and into the process itself.  Look at it at just the right angle and you’ll see my imaginary lake becoming yours.  We have made a connection that might be described as spiritual.  Maybe but not yet.  For that we need to go a little further.

Next try to visualise all those streams of human interaction.  All those communication links where imagination is passed from one mind to another.  Linking in and out and between people.  Not just the lake in the description but every concept, every idea that is shared and transformed and shared again.  Every text, every picture, each bar of music, every spoken word, knowing look, smile or tear.  Streams through casual contact, shared memories, witnessed events, past and future touching, cause meeting effect in billions of different ways.  Try to imagine this immense latticework of lakes and flowing streams, grasp a sense of it’s vastness and awesome complexity. The reach of this is nearly infinite and yet it remains rich with every experience that humanity has chosen to share.  This waterway of conceptual paradise mixing all information, all identities, all societies and selves forever and beyond time and space.  More than any single mind can hope to grasp.

Spirituality for me is when I catch a glimpse of that vast connectivity.  Some might call it God but for me it just doesn’t have words that are adequate.  It is my hope that this experiment has let you share it with me, even if just for a moment.  Let me know what you think.

Back to Secular humanism next week.

Popularity: 56% [?]

Secular Humanist Tenets Part 4 - Search for Truth

Four weeks ago I wrote about false assumptions and how Christians suffered in the past because of them just as atheists suffer today. Atheism doesn’t have a philosophy or principles to counter these false assumptions any more than it has a philosophy or principles to deserve them. Secular humanism does put forward a set of positive traits and promotes a world view. These are:

  1. Need to test beliefs
  2. Reason, evidence, scientific method
  3. Fulfillment, growth, creativity
  4. Search for truth
  5. This life
  6. Ethics
  7. Building a better world

The search for truth is something that both secular humanists and those who belong to one theistic group or another can appreciate. Secular humanists, I think, take a slightly different stance to it though. Read the rest of this entry »

Popularity: 35% [?]

Secular Humanist Tenets Part 3 - Fulfillment, growth, creativity

Three weeks ago I wrote about false assumptions and how Christians suffered in the past because of them just as atheists suffer today. Atheism doesn’t have a philosophy or principles to counter these false assumptions any more than it has a philosophy or principles to deserve them. Secular humanism does put forward a set of positive traits and promotes a world view. These are:

  1. Need to test beliefs
  2. Reason, evidence, scientific method
  3. Fulfillment, growth, creativity
  4. Search for truth
  5. This life
  6. Ethics
  7. Building a better world

This week I wish to discuss why secular humanists value fulfilment, growth and creativity in life. Read the rest of this entry »

Popularity: 31% [?]

Secular Humanist Tenets Part 2 - Reason, evidence, scientific method

Two weeks ago I wrote about false assumptions and how Christians suffered in the past because of them just as atheists suffer today.  Atheism doesn’t have a philosophy or principles to counter these false assumptions any more than it has a philosophy or principles to deserve them.  Secular humanism does put forward a set of positive traits and promotes a world view.  These are:

  1. Need to test beliefs
  2. Reason, evidence, scientific method
  3. Fulfillment, growth, creativity
  4. Search for truth
  5. This life
  6. Ethics
  7. Building a better world

This week I wish to discuss why reason, evidence and the scientific method are important to our world view.

Read the rest of this entry »

Popularity: 11% [?]

Potential future book?

I’m thinking of writing a fiction book (in the far future). One book that gives an honest portrayal of both Christians and atheists without all of the polemic crap. Here’s an intro to the main characters (names may change as I see fit).

Max: After being raised on the belief that a person does not need religion to lead a fulfilled life , she falls into the world of drugs. Although she has read every popular self-help/reason filled book ever written and has tried her hardest, she still cannot overcome her addiction. It is by chance she meets up with a group of Christians who demonstrate a new life for her. Although she hesitates at first due to her past experiences with Christians, Max decides to explore for herself and starts to understand the true relationship with Jesus. However, new struggles come from trying to connect with her new less skeptical brothers and sisters and trying to relate to those in her past life who now claim that she is weak.

Rachel: The daughter of a Baptist preacher, Rachel struggles to find her new identity in atheism after her own personal journey. Although she shows no resentment towards her former religion, she quickly becomes angry with the increasing resentment of her family, the assumptions that she now lacks any morals and the pressure to “convert back”. She hates being told that she never was a “true” Christian even though she was just as committed as anybody else. She just wants to be left alone and be able to tell her own story.

Tyler: The hard-core fundamentalist Christian. Tyler is convinced of the change in his life because of Christ and seeks to aggressively tell everyone in his path about Him by using any methods necessary (i.e. screaming to the masses about the Second Coming). Although he constantly debates with his brother Arnie and the rest of the world, his intense passion comes from both proving to his brother that the Christianity that they were raised in is not true Christianity and demonstrating to a broken world how much God loves them.

Arnie: The complete opposite of Tyler, but similar in many ways. A militant atheist, Arnie seeks to educate the masses about the oppressive nature and lies brought on by religion. He hates the assumptions that people make about his beliefs and how he does not care about the world around him just because he “lacks faith in God.” Although he constantly debates with Tyler, Arnie cares for him deeply and worries that his brother will be burned again by the very religion that made their lives hell not so long ago.

These characters are not as developed as of yet but I would like to develop stories around them. I want to show people different reasons why Christians and atheists act the way they do. And before anyone starts, I know that many people walk into or out of faith for different reasons. These are just four characters with four different stories.

Thoughts?

Popularity: 6% [?]

What The &$*#% Is A Tumblelog??????

tumblelogA tumblelog is a variation of a blog, that favors short-form, mixed-media posts over the longer editorial posts frequently associated with blogging. Common post formats found on tumblelogs include links, photos, quotes, dialogues, and video. [1]

Check out the FriendlyChristian.com Tumblelog!!!

This is a place where we can take a step back from the intensity of FC. If you really want to get to know more about me, this will be the place to do it. Expect stupid pictures, funny quotes and entertaining links combined with random things that stir up emotion in me.

No holds barred - full blown (idiot) Bill :-)
I’d encourage you to check out the FriendlyChristian tumblelog. I’m super excited about doing this. There’s definitely a side of me that isn’t shown very well through FriendlyChristian.com.

I’ll be posting a permanent menu link soon!

Oh, and lemme know if you see anything that is broken or could be better. Being that this site is brand new, I’m expecting a kink or two.

Popularity: 5% [?]

Random Like The Bounce Of A Football

It’s Friday. I’m tired. Real tired. Anyone else tired? You guys are insane. This site is soooo hard to keep up with! I’m gonna have to hire a staff! Any volunteers? lol

In attempt to allow myself stress-free weekends, I think I’m gonna keep Friday’s posts light. Thank you guys for another awesome week. I absolutely love doing this with you. This site is awesome!!

Below is a list of random crap. Enjoy!

Read the rest of this entry »

Popularity: 7% [?]

I Love This Site

I just have to say something real quick. I’m really glad that I don’t have a blog filled with comments like:

You’re right! Good blog!

I feel the same way. Great writing!

I couldn’t have said it better myself. Woot!

Read the rest of this entry »

Popularity: 8% [?]