Archive for April, 2008

Bill Cecchini: A FriendlyChristian

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Here’s a little personal info on me. Click the pics to enlarge.

I have two dogs: Apple, a brindle puggle (half pug, half beagle), and Jack, a Boston Terrier. They’re inseparable!

Apple & Jack

I have a smokin’ HOT and sexy (an severe understatement, as you can see) , smart, gentle, loving, and kind girlfriend named Tiffany who loves me more than I can comprehend.
Tiffany Walczuk

I attend Seacoast Church. What an amazing place to serve!
Seacoast Church

I live right off this beach. Yes, it’s a rough life. Before this I lived off this beach. And before that I lived off this beach. Spoiled brat?
Isle Of Palms Beach

This is my favorite TV show. Do you love it as much as I do? Somebody be a good friend and give me one of these.
The Office

I blog using Wordpress. I host my own site and have all my own equipment. I often feel in over my head.
Wordpress

Today I made some huge changes to FriendlyChristian.com. I abandoned the dulls grays and picked up some bright happy colors! Come have a look.
FriendlyChristian.com

If you guys have any other questions about me, feel free to leave a comment or send me an email.

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Go Me

Sry for the lack of posts lately. Times are busy, my friend. Times are busy…

I just finished my last exam. I have officially completed a semester of school! I know that’s not a big deal to most, but it is to me.
:-)

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Christians, Compassion and Interfaith Meetings

Last week the Dalai Lama was in Seattle for a five day meeting focused on compassion. Here’s the description of the event from the website:

An unprecedented gathering to engage the hearts and minds of our community by highlighting the vision, science, and programs of early social, emotional, and cognitive learning.

Anchored by the deep wisdom of His Holiness the Dalai Lama, this community–focused event will celebrate and explore the relationships, programs and tools that nurture and empower children, families and communities to be compassionate members of society.

Each of the five days will provide parents, educators, business and community leaders with an opportunity to better understand the real benefits of compassion, and concrete steps on how to bring compassion into their lives.

I flew out to attend the final day, whose theme was ‘Youth and Spiritual Connection’. I was privileged to attend a private prayer breakfast with the Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu. That was followed by a two part panel discussion with those two men and several spiritual leaders from a variety of religions/spiritual traditions. Read the rest of this entry »

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Closing FriendlyChristian.com

I’m presently in the middle of my bi-monthly ‘I want to stop blogging on FriendlyChristian’ ordeal. This time it’s pretty serious.

I’ve spent a good part of today wondering why I continue to host this site. For the most part, FriendlyChristian.com visitors fall into one of three categories:

  1. You’re a Christian who agrees with most of what I say. You’d rather not debate with a bunch of highly educated atheists (so you stay quiet) and will most likely never budge.
  2. You’re a Christian who disagrees with most of what I say. You’re interested in telling me that I’m way off base, whether it’s in a comment or email, and once you say what you feel the need to say, you never come back (as far as I know).
  3. You’re not a Christian and you disagree with most of what I say. You enjoy debating and telling Christians that they’re wrong and will most likely never budge.

I’m not promoting a product or an organization. I’m not part of a magazine or newspaper. My opinion(s) are shared by many and often expressed better by others. The truth is, this site is a dime a dozen.

I’m not saying that I don’t have anything to offer. I’m not throwing a pity party and I’m not interested in your sympathy (that sounds harsher than I intend it). But really, what’s the point?

I’ve heard sermon after sermon about not quitting/giving up. I just heard one this afternoon, actually. But I also know that throwing in the towel is sometimes a great (and mandatory) move in the right direction.

Originally I had a vision that we could start a movement. I felt like my passion and persistence were all that would be required. I felt like I could bring authenticity, a long lost quality, back into the arsenal of Christians. I felt like I/we could show unbelievers what it really means to be a follower of Christ. I don’t know that any of this has happened. Instead, FriendlyChristian.com has become a battlefield. And that, my friend, is not something that I’m interested in being a part of.

Christianity is so freakin’ complex. I told a friend just yesterday that I wish it really could be as simple as Mark 12:30-31 (love God and love each other). Christianity as a whole is jacked up. Every religion thinks they’re right. We’re making fools out of ourselves. I’m just one dude armed with a passion for Christ, a white Macbook and a lot to say. I just don’t know that that’s enough in the world of blogging.

Then, mix all this with trying to figure out how to run a successful blog. It’s an aggravating mess that I just don’t know is really worth it.

Side note…
I’m not interested in lectures telling me that I’m a wrong for not reading the King James Version bible. I want to argue but I’m not going to. What’s the point? You’ve made up your mind. If I’m wrong and acknowledging the fact that the KJV is the ONLY true word of God, I’ll gladly apologize to you as I descend into hell. Until then, you can go argue with someone who gives a rat’s…

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The Church Of Oprah

Christians love disliking Oprah. She’s famous for telling her multi-million person audience that there “can’t possibly be only one way to God.”

A recent Youtube video has hit the Internet and taken it by storm. In this video, Oprah is accused of leading the largest church or cult in the world. Check out the video here.

I myself am not an Oprah fan. In my opinion, this video isn’t way off. She has an enormous following and she’s leading people astray. Like it or not, the bible warns us time after time again about these false leaders. I’m not about to lose any sleep over Oprah or her “cult,” though.

Watch the CNN report here.

Your thoughts.

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Pope Benedict XVI Walks On Water

In attempt not to start arguments with my Catholic friends, I’ve made an honest effort not to post anything about Pope Benedict’s current visit to the United States. Last night, though, I heard a few things that forced me to change my mind.

Excited citizens did everything they could to catch a rare glimpse of the Pope while he was slowly driven through the city streets. Pope Benedict

Those who were interviewed made very curious comments.

It was incredible. I mean, he’s the closet thing we have to Jesus on the entire Earth!

Really? I wonder if Jesus thinks that way too.
This one is even better.

One day I’ll be able to tell my children that I saw Christ himself in person

Uhhhh…what? I thought Christ was going to return on a white horse, not this crazy Tonka Truck.

Comments?

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He’s Baaaack!

Jesus At A HospitalIt’s been some time since his last obvious appearance. Fear not though, my friends, for Jesus is back. This time he’s shown himself in………(drum roll)……..

A hospital window!

“There was just a whole bunch of people putting their cell phones to the window, so I went over there and I saw a glow,” witness Joel Cruzada said. “When you are standing there and there is a flurry of people talking about it, you are like, ‘Wow, I’m actually here.’”

Somebody should (if they haven’t already) stand up a site dedicated to Jesus sightings.

Read the full article and see more pictures here.

Off topic, I have a new favorite website. Check out Jon’s tribute to “Stuff Christians Like,” a sarcastic approach to pointing out the “requirements” of being a Christian. At this site you’ll find posts like…

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Jefferson Day

Today is the anniversary of Thomas Jefferson’s birth. Apparently he’s an important figure in American history, what with him being the third President of the United States and all. Given the significance of the day I thought that it was worth spending a few minutes talking about him. Please take into account that I’m not an American and American history and politics were never part of my childhood education. Any errors and omissions are a result of the dodgy websites where I’m getting my information. ;)
I’m going to concentrate on Jefferson’s famous religious opinions.  It seems reasonable given the emphasis of the site.  Raised in the Church of England (the name itself is conclusive proof that God is English, as if the sense of humour weren’t a big enough clue) he converted to the deist philosophy. He believed in one God, divine moral law and divine providence but not in supernatural revelation. He viewed Jesus as a great teacher but not as the incarnation of God or as a messiah.  Perfectly reasonable beliefs if you ask me.

Jefferson’s conclusions about the Bible are noteworthy. He considered much of the new testament of the Bible to be lies. He described these as “so much untruth, charlatanism and imposture”. He described the “roguery of others of His disciples”, and called them a “band of dupes and impostors” describing Paul as the “first corrupter of the doctrines of Jesus”, and wrote of “palpable interpolations and falsifications”. He also described the Book of Revelation to be “merely the ravings of a maniac, no more worthy nor capable of explanation than the incoherences of our own nightly dreams”. While living in the White House, Jefferson began to make his own condensed version of the Gospels, omitting Jesus’ virgin birth, miracles, divinity, and resurrection, primarily leaving only Jesus’ moral philosophy, of which he approved. This compilation was published after his death and became known as the Jefferson Bible.

When I read that I just had to laugh. It’s a fine example of cherry picking and is about as close to atheism as you can get and still believe in God.

The separation of church and state was an important issue for Jefferson. The argument being that a religion that is endorsed by the state would not benefit the citizenry but act as a tyrant.  Those not of the state religion would be denied rights, possible even punished. He and James Madison wrote the Bill of Religious Freedom which read:

No man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place, or ministry whatsoever, nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burdened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer, on account of his religious opinions or belief; but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinions in matters of religion, and that the same shall in no wise diminish, enlarge, or affect their civil capacities

This just makes me like the guy even more. Of course, a wall of separation between the state and church works to the benefit of both. The church is unable to interfere with the proper running of government and the state is unable to interfere with freedom of the individual to express their faith as they see fit. How he managed to marry his belief in divine providence with the secularization of government is testimony to his strength of character and his intellect.

Biographer Merrill Peterson summarizes Jefferson’s theology:

First, that the Christianity of the churches was unreasonable, therefore unbelievable, but that stripped of priestly mystery, ritual, and dogma, reinterpreted in the light of historical evidence and human experience, and substituting the Newtonian cosmology for the discredited Biblical one, Christianity could be conformed to reason. Second, morality required no divine sanction or inspiration, no appeal beyond reason and nature, perhaps not even the hope of heaven or the fear of hell; and so the whole edifice of Christian revelation came tumbling to the ground

It the modern political climate I swear that the history and opinion of Thomas Jefferson should be required learning for anyone in public office. He was President at the beginning of the 19th Century, and contributed to the formation and structuring of the United States of America as few others did. I don’t know if Jefferson Day is celebrated by his countrymen but, speaking as an outsider looking in, I really think it should be.

(Source http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_Jefferson#Religious_views)

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Lee Strobel At FriendlyAtheist.com

I’m way behind on reading the blogs that I subscribe to - usually am. Do you guys fall behind too?

Anyhow, I just saw that ex-atheist turned Christian author Lee Strobel (Case For Christ, Case For Faith, etc) recently commented on the FriendlyAtheist site. Wow!

In response, Hemant contacted Mr. Strobel and asked if he’d be willing to field some questions on the FriendlyAtheist website. The author agreed. Check out the post here.

Yesterday’s American Idol post (updated information at bottom of post) brought in a boatload of new readers. As I watched them arrive on the site I wondered…

  • Who could this person be?
  • What is her story?
  • How well have I represented myself on FriendlyChristian?
  • How will this [probable] Christian react when she reads the comments of all you scary atheists?
  • Will she ever come back to FriendlyChristian?

Chances are:

  • It’s most likely just some “unimportant” random person
  • She’s probably bored at work/home, passing time, and will never come back to my site

Now let’s acknowledge reality -

It Could Be Anyone

It
Could
Be
Anybody

Here’s the truth: you have no idea who is gonna end up reading your writings. That’s both exciting and intimidating, isn’t it?

As for me, I’m just gonna go ahead and assume that I’m writing for an audience of one.

Take advantage of this tremendous opportunity. Leave a comment/question for Lee Strobel here.

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Shout To The Lord On American Idol

Last night, the final 8 contestants on American Idol ended by singing one of the greatest worship songs of all time, Shout To The Lord. Click here to view the performance

My Jesus Shepherd, My Savior
Lord there is none like You
All of my days
I want to praise
The wonders of Your mighty love

My Comfort, My Shelter
Tower of refuge and strength
Let every breath
And all that I am
Never cease to worship You

…and so on. Bold, baby. Bold!

I got chills when I heard it. I get chills every time I watch this performance actually. I wonder why they picked this song, though? Singing a praise song (especially one as intense as this) is an extremely bold move, wouldn’t ya say? Rock on, AI.

Edit: The top 8 sang Shout To The Lord again tonight. This time they used the name Jesus. Interesting.

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